Writers’ Block – Writing is not a Job

Writing is a Hobby

Writing is a Hobby

Our families have rules about everything. And of course, they have rules about how we’re supposed to earn money and make a living. There are traditions in the family which jobs to hold, and if you look closely at your family tree, you might easily see the patterns. In my family, most of my ancestors were teachers, state officials and housewives.

There is creative talent in my family. My grandfather, my mom and my sister are good at drawing or painting. My father is great at learning languages and on rare occasions allows his story-telling talent to shine. Having that kind of talent is nice – but for my family, it’s not a way of making a living. (I’m working to change that!)

Writing usually isn’t on the list of jobs open to family members.

Which means you have to break a family rule in order to be a full-time writer. Continue reading

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Saturday Writing Prompt

Another mystery presented by the Story Cubes…

Time for your imagination to soar!

Bridge, Tent. Magnet

What lies behind the bridge?

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Writers’ Block – Can’t Show This to Mom

I can't show this to Mom!

I can’t show this to Mom!

Would you show your book to your mom or grandma?

Did I get you there? *winks*

I know how that feels. I’ve written scenes that I would hesitate to show my mother. You know what I mean. Those. Yeah.

Thing is, we put a lot of ourselves into our books. And for the villains, we need to look into our own dark sides. Then we can write them convincingly. Most people hide those dark sides. We use them.

But it’s not a lot of fun to imagine our close family getting to see those dark sides via our books. Letting them know we can imagine such horror. Or kink. Or simply letting them see how we make our characters suffer and our villains gloat. Which we do, there’s no doubt.

And at least I can hear them say, in my imagination:

How can you write this? Continue reading

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Writers’ Block – Scared of the Haters

sad author

Sad author

We authors tend to pour a lot of ourselves into our books, even if they are non-fiction. And we’re rightfully proud of what we have created once we have a finished, edited manuscript, or even a finished book, ready to publish.

Until it’s time to show it to others.

Then doubt sets in. Is it good enough? Will they like it?

And that’s only the first level of exposure.

Consider Amazon, and the review feature. As published authors, we need reviews. The more, the better.

Except for the 1-star ones.

Those can make us cringe.

And then, there’s the internet’s hateful, misogynist, racist underbelly.

What if we win the publishing lottery and our book suddenly becomes famous? Will we get harassed like that? Receive hateful mail? Get trolled on Twitter?

This might seem to be over the top – not many authors gain that much fame. But this is a writer’s brain we’re talking about, and I know many of us can and do think that far ahead in a heartbeat. Continue reading

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Saturday Writing Prompt

Can you make sense of this?

I’m sure you can. You’re a writer, after all.

Tower, scarab and a worried face

What’s behind that tower and the scarab?

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Writers’ Block – My Book could Tank

Book sales

Book Sales

I firmly believe that being blocked from writing means that a safety program is working hard to protect you from feeling bad. Never mind that having Writers’ Block also feels bad.

This internal safety program has developed through past disappointments and fears. And it means there is something out there that could hurt you if you keep writing, and possibly finishing the book.

Now one of the things that really hurt writers is a book not doing well.

After all, you did put a lot of work, effort and probably heart blood into it. You gave it all. Spent hours writing it, editing it and making it as good as you possibly could. You hoped it would do well, maybe even be your breakout book.

So much could ride on that one book! Continue reading

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Saturday Writing Prompt

Once more the Story Cubes are challenging you!

What might be going on here behind the door??

Cane, key hole and footprint

Mystery behind a locked door?

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Writers’ Block: Must Write a Novel

doorstopper novel

Doorstopper Novel

With this post, we move into the realm of beliefs about your product: The STORY

First of all, many beginning writers I know believe they must write at least a novel. A real book. Something “big”. And a series is even better! Yes, even with stories, size seems to matter in a certain way.

For a while, especially in Fantasy, bigger was better, no questions asked. If not the single book, then the series. It had to be huge. Doorstoppers, at least three for a series, but five were better. Maybe even ten, or a dozen. Imagine the size of that world, the headcount of the cast and the number of subplots to fill that many pages… it’s daunting!

Bigger is better!

And then you have the other extreme: Short stories.

There isn’t a clear definition of length for short stories by word count – officially – but lengths of 2,000 to 7,500 words are commonly mentioned. It “should be readable in one sitting” is an informal definition. However, many, many magazines have word count limits for the short stories they accept, and those limits have gone down considerably in the last 20 years. I’ve seen several go below the 2,000 words that were the lower limit of actual short stories.

Flash fiction has become popular, including the  “drabble” (100 words) or even “Twit Fic”, confined to the 140 characters that Twitter allows. That’s about 23 words, btw. And I have seen stories told in such few words.

Shortest is best!

So how do we know? Continue reading

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Saturday Writing Prompt

A fountain under the moon? And what about the arrow?

What kind of story is lurking here?

Fountain, Moon and Arrow

What does the Moon mean?

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Writers’ Block – Flow or C..p

Flow

Flow

As writers, we demand a lot of ourselves, and we hold expectations about how our writing has to happen.

One of those is that we have to be in flow in order to produce beautiful sentences and paragraphs.

That’s what Kim thinks.

When writing is like pulling teeth, he gives up right away and begins to doubt the story. Maybe it isn’t really any good, if he can’t get into it. Maybe the character is wrong. Maybe the challenge is too weak or too strong. Maybe he needs to start over.

Maybe…

By not getting into the flow right away, Kim invites self-doubt and stops himself from writing.

But the real killer is his belief:

If the words don’t flow easily, something is wrong.

That’s a terrible thing to do to yourself. And it’s totally wrong. Continue reading

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